You know, it’s funny how people remain in relationships just to satisfy the thoughts and words of other people. It’s all about ” What people will say?”. What about how you feel and what makes you happy? No one knows what you are going through, only you. Listen, It makes no sense you stay in an unhappy and unproductive relationship just to satisfy what others are going to say, so what if people talk? they will forever talk, whether your life is all good or all bad. You need to understand that you re responsible for your happiness. You may think that all men or all women are the same but you are wrong, there are good men and women left in this world; problem is, they might be caught up in a meaningless relationship like the one you are caught up in.
You have to believe that you deserve more. Sometimes you have to forget what you feel and remember what you deserve. I know some people may be in a relationship for many years , unhappy as ever but they are scared to walk away from all the hurt and abuse, well I’m here to tell you that it is better to be alone than to be involved with someone who doesn’t treat you like the King or Queen that you are. True love still exists, it’s not only a fairy tale, until you meet that special someone, you’ll forever think that love sucks but love doesn’t suck, loving the wrong person does.
I’m a hopeless romantic, I believe in in fairy tales and love. I make love look like an art form with all the romantic things I do for my special someone, and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. True love makes you want to go the extra mile. I keep saying this, when someone feels appreciated and loved, they will go beyond what is expected, with that said; stop settling for less than you deserve and start asking for what you deserve. Abuse is not love. Cheating is not love. When you truly love someone loyalty becomes so easy because you constantly think about how great they are and how much you don’t want to lose them. Stand up for what you believe and what you feel. You will know when it is right because It will feel right. No doubts, no uncertainties, no shadiness.
Ofcourse we are humans and the perfect spouse doesn’t exists but we sure can strive to be. Put yourself first. Make better decisions about your life and relationships.
One life to live
Live it happy 🙂
One love -Skay